So. I am now officially "in my 30's" and I'm good with it.
Another blogger is going to turn 30 in a month or so and she was wondering how turning 30 was for people who already have and if those who haven't turned 30 yet are worried about it.
I wasn't worried about turning 30 . . . I actually remember feeling kind of weird about 29 - the last year of my 20's - and being sort of relieved about turning 30.
And I was just reading over my post from my 30th birthday - that was a fun list to write. :)
My birthday has been just about perfect.
- The sun shone brightly all day on my birthday.
- A lot of snow melted.
- My kiddos woke me with an envelope stuffed with cards they had made, a necklace Isaac had made, a string of beads Maddie had made and a whole pile of pennies.
- The mailman delivered a package with sandals and home-raised honey and a journal made from elephant poo (yes. really made from elephant poo).
- My mom and dad had a birthday party for me in the evening.
- My mom made me an angel food cake with 7 minute frosting, and Maddie and I had made the strawberry oreo dessert today, too (Ben was out of town and couldn't get home in time to make it before the party) - so we had lots of sticky, gooey goodness.
{Maddie took down the instructions over the phone - I think we can forgive the backwards letters "b" and "e" in place of "c"}
- One of my good friends gave me a special pot to plant one of my violets in.
- My mom made me a pretty apron.
- My sister-in-law gave me tulips.
- On Monday my dad watched my kids so my mom could take me out for coffee.
- Ben and some friends are taking me out for dinner on Thursday.
- Last week a box of fabric - all sorts of bits and bigger pieces came to me from my friend Elissa - oh the ideas!
- My sis sent me a lovely card and note.
And just some random thoughts about being "in my 30's" ::
The last year was a whirlwind - some of the whirl I shared here, and some I didn't. But, I think that this year will be a year of settling. Settling into our home. Settling in to my job. Settling in to what works for us for learning and teaching. Ben and my brother have been working out some changes in the way they run their business and there is some settling going on there, too. Settling in to the way that we are going to live Church - not just have a ritual of "going to church." Settling in to tracking our finances and working on some debt reduction and peaceful control of what goes out. It feels like we are on track with these things, like we are slowly but surely getting somewhere.
Even through the whirlwind of last year, some things have settled for us. When Ben and I were dating, we had this sort of list of things we wanted to accomplish by the time we were 30. One of the things was that we would like to build and be in our house by the time we were 30. We moved into our house when we were both still 30! This is pretty amazing.
I feel like so many things have just settled in Ben's and my relationship. We are both so comfortable with each other, but we both challange each other and bring out the best in each other. We've learned how to do this over the past almost-10 years. I am so. very. thankful for this man of mine.
Our kids are awesome. They are still little enough to tickle and wrestle and play and goof and sit on my lap and snuggle, but they are big enough to pitch in with chores (dishes and wood and cleaning), so that we can accomplish our "work" faster and have more time for other fun. And that "work" becomes a lot more like fun when we do it together. They are also learning to read and write and do "school" stuff - and it is so cool to watch them get things! They are also getting it about wanting to be a blessing to other people. They love to write and send letters and cards and make and give gifts. They are definitely Ben and my children, but they are also growing to be our friends. Our favorite times are when we do things all together - all four of us. We are settling.
So - I'm liking this "30's" thing. I'm liking it a lot!